This topic can be such a difficult thing for so many people. There’s a lot of internet chatter about expectations, and mommy guilt. Some people find it difficult to be on social media amongst the well curated photos that portray a “perfect” life, home, mom, kids, dad, dog… and the list goes on and on.
Here’s the thing though.
There is no such thing as perfection in our humanity.
End of story.
Maybe that’s why I don’t really struggle with mom guilt. I’m not aiming to be perfect – that’s so unattainable that my type-A personality can’t handle it. Sure I have my moments but for the most part I think I do an OK job – and if I’m not, if somehow I’m messing it all up – well God’s got that under control.
Here’s the other thing.
I was created specifically to be Ezekiel’s mother. Me. No one else. So if I was created to be that person then I can only assume that I’m adequate for the job.
I’ve been thinking about this so much lately. I realize that I’m a bit radical in so many ways when it comes to my parenting style – no TV, no sugar, organic food, wood toys, cloth diapers, extended breastfeeding etc. etc. Not only am I a bit radical but I’m also VERY talkative and I fear my constant chatter makes it seem as though I believe my ways are better than others. While it’s true I generally feel like no TV, no sugar and more organic food will benefit everyone (not just children) that’s such a SMALL portion of being a parent. Those decisions? Those are the minute details in the grand scheme of things. Loving your child fiercely, allowing them to grow up dreaming and teaching your child to respect and love humanity? That’s huge – far greater than what you let them watch or eat.
I have so many blog posts written in my head about parenting and I have been just waiting on when to post them. I feel like I’m coming into a place where I can start to jot it down.
More than anything my prayer and hope is that when I write I’m conveying the deep conviction I have when it comes to parenting. God created you, He created your little one(s) and He did that ON PURPOSE and FOR A REASON – trust in that always and things will always work out.